Terces Engelhart shares from her calling to make sure people don’t miss who they really are. Her love and acceptance is welcoming and her joy infectious. Her own journey from sexual abuse and twenty years of an eating disorder empowers her sharing with real life experiences and her intimate relationship with Jesus, that led to her healing, is inspiring.
When not on the road speaking and teaching, she lives with her husband, Matthew, in Vacaville California on their regenerative farm.
She and her husband are the founders of Cafe Gratitude and Gracias Madre, plant based restaurants. Together they have five grown children and thirteen grandchildren.
In this episode we talk abouT
- her long struggle with eating disorders and the pinnacle moment that got her to stop and get support
- realizing she was teacher her children to not trust their intuition and how that re-routed her life
- how trust is a gift that you give
- overcoming addiction and the path to healing
- how her children helped with her healing and overcoming addiction
- trusting her inner guide as she started to tell the truth
- how people are often first faced with their own pain and takes a while to be open to thinking of what others may be feeling
- the pain and struggle of dealing with her addiction while being pregnant
- how opening up about our pain and hardships allows everyone to unravel, open up and heal themselves
- the pull yourself up by your bootstraps and keep going mentality she was raised in
- the healing that she did for years and years but realizing she was not feeling
- creating generational healing
- how healing and transforming is continual
- what inspired the opening of Cafe Gratitude
- the work of staying present
- thinking versus feeling through life
- how our biggest struggles often create our calling and the gift we are here to give to the world
- the push past the pain messages she got as a child and how we need to pay attention to the messages we give others
- how the boardgame came to be from her transformation and wanting that for others
- how they opened the first Cafe Gratitude restaurant
- the “clearings” the do at the cafe for each employee before their shifts
- the hugeness of active listening
- acknowledgment being a highly under utilized tool
- being a conscious parent and the reality that there will be somethings that create pain and wounds in your children no matter what
- if you want to be led, follow the guidance
- Which keychain she chose from my line and why!
You can find Terces @terces and at https://www.belovefarm.com
You can find information about Terces and Matthew’s workshops and books here
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