In this episode we talk about: 

• what his life looked like before he became a self love coach and what was happening in his life that led him to self love
• waking up to how he was fighting for others to see him as he saw himself
• coming out and the fear of not living up to expectations
• realizing that his own fear was what was stopping him and poisoning him not other people
• finding people who just allowed him and wanted him to do him fully and how beneficial it was
• getting the dream job he was fighting for and realized it wasn’t what he was really looking for
• the daily struggle of claiming our worth, value, enough-ness
• his struggle with wanting the transformation so much for others that he knows his work will facilitate and people not committing to it
• his struggle with coming out and wanting to please his father
• how often parents and loved ones express love through fear as they think are protecting you
• giving up what he thought was his dream life to move in with his parents and start his life over
• his experience working on a business with his father and realizing he needed to be building his own dream and not someone elses 
• becoming a spin instructor and using that as a method to empower people
• the moment with one of his personal training clients that made him totally shift his work to self love and not just through fitness
• why what motivates you to exercise matters
• self love is an every day, every moment job, not cool got this down and you are done
• his transition from being a fitness professional to building his own online business and coaching program and the fears, doubts and struggles to come with that and having your partner also back you
• the entrepreneur rollercoaster of doing the work you love but finances not always being steady and secure and creating offerings that don’t end up creating profit 
• how your life story doesn’t need to have had any dramatic moments to need to work on your self love, it is something we all need to do

• Which keychain she chose from my line and why!

To get started on your self love journey head to Paulfishman.love/quiz and take Paul’s 5 question quiz that will help you figure out the best way to practice self love for you!

You can find Paul @paulfishman and @theselfloveshow

Check out his podcast The Road to Self Love!

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Paul’s podcast episode with his father  

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